To all of the mothers out there with daughters you should really consider having a ladies night at least once a month. I take my daughter out with me and my two best friends every Friday evening. I have chosen two amazing empowered women that know their worth and are full of love and light. We all gather together at either a restaurant, a resort or movie.
We all decide on Monday what we would like to do and my daughter often dictates our weekly choice. I am happy that she is open and excited about life. I never want to shut down and disappear like I did for so many years. I am grateful that she has strong amazing women to look up to that love and respect her as she should be. My daughter is an Indigo child as was I. Many are being born to this earth and can not handle the "old" ways of parenting. They are born knowing their worth and purpose. You can not say to an Indigo "because I said so." They will be angered and insulted. Many Indigos are classified as difficult, hyperactive, and just "bad" if they are treated without respect. My best friend and Reiki master pointed out to me that my daughter was an Indigo and she chose me because I am also an Indigo that was so mentally abused by my parents that I lost my "voice" for so many years. She told me that I would need to forget all of the conventional ways of child raising and treat her with mutual respect. I remember as a child being called Atomic mouth and to shut up. Beatings with belts and hangers when I challenged my mother and back handed slaps when I answered back against the injustice I felt was being imposed on myself and/or my siblings. I never felt like I belonged in school and I never felt that anyone really liked me. It felt as if they were putting up with me. I always wanted to defend anyone that needed defending but was too afraid. I did lose my voice and because of my best friend M. I found it again in my freshman year of university.
We met and were instantly attracted to one another. As we became closer she said one night when I was crying about another cruel thing my mother had said to me. "I will love you back into existence, I know the real you is in there somewhere." It took years and my mother's death but I now feel comfortable in my own skin. I often wonder what I could have achieved if I was born to enlightened parents. Anyway my angel is God's mercy and gift to allow me to raise a daughter that is so ahead of me spiritually and love her enough to let her fly. So please mothers and fathers allow your sons and daughters to have a voice you may have an Indigo or a Crystal child in your care. I have attached a link for anyone interested in learning more about Indigo souls. I think my blog friend PIP is an Indigo she is so gifted!!!!

http://www.metagifted.org/topics/metagifted/indigo/